PRIDE AND PREJUDICE by Jane Austen

“It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune, must be in want of a wife.”

Each time I re-read “Pride and Prejudice”, I understand different things than I did at my previous reading. I suppose this is normal, taking into consideration the fact that my age is different at each reading; therefore, I’m supposed to be wiser!!!
This time I am impressed with the speech given by Elizabeth’s father about Mr. Darcy (right after Mr. Darcy asked for Elizabeth’s hand in marriage). And I am impressed with how Elizabeth, like any girl in love, is taking Mr. Darcy side.

“Her father was walking about the room, looking grave and anxious.
-Lizzy, said he, what are you doing? Are you out of your senses, to be accepting this man? Have not you always hated him? Or in other words, you are determined to have him? He is rich, to be sure, and you may have more fine clothes and fine carriages than Jane. But will they make you happy?

– Have you any other objection, said Elizabeth, than your belief of my indifference?

– None at all. We all know him to be a proud, unpleasant sort of man; but this would be nothing if you really liked him.

– I do, I do like him, she replied, with tears in her eyes, I love him. Indeed he has no improper pride. He is perfectly amiable. You do not know what he really is; then pray do not pain me by speaking of him in such terms.

– Lizzy, said her father, I have given him my consent. He is the kind of man, indeed, to whom I should never dare refuse any thing, which he condescended to ask. I now give it to you, if you are resolved on having him. But let me advise you to think better of it. I know your disposition, Lizzy. I know that you could be neither happy nor respectable, unless you truly esteemed your husband; unless you looked up to him as a superior. Your lively talents would place you in the greatest danger in an unequal marriage. You could scarcely escape discredit and misery. My child, let me not have the grief of seeing you unable to respect your partner in life. You know not what you are about.

Elizabeth, still more affected, was earnest and solemn in her reply; and at length, by repeated assurances that Mr. Darcy was really the object of her choice, by explaining the gradual change which her estimation of him had undergone, relating her absolute certainty that his affection was not the work of a day, but had stood the test of many months suspense, and enumerating with energy all his good qualities, she did conquer her father’s incredulity, and reconcile him to the match.“

Editura: Penguin Books 2009

P.S. From time to time I buy myself new editions of “Pride and Prejudice” and the main reason is the design of the cover. This edition is illustrated by Ruben Toledo (his wife, Isabel Toledo, was the designer of the dress and the coat chosen by Michelle Obama to wear at the inauguration of President Barack Obama in 2009).