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\"\"<\/a>“I am in love with a man who physically hurts me.\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/span>
\nOf all people, I have no idea how I let myself get to this point.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

There were many times growing up I wondered what was going through my mother’s head in the days after may father had hurt her. How she could possibly love a man who had laid his hands on her. A man who repeatedly hit her. Repeatedly promised he would never do it again. Repeatedly hit her again.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

I hate that I can empathize with her now.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

People on the outside of the situations like these often wonder why the woman goes back to the abuser.<\/strong><\/em><\/span>
\nI read somewhere once that 85 percent of women return to abusive situations.\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/span>
\nThat was before I realized I was in one, and when I heard that statistic, I thought it was because the women were stupid.<\/strong><\/em><\/span>
\nI thought it was because they were weak.<\/strong><\/em><\/span>
\nI thought these things about my own mother more than once.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

But sometimes the reason women go back is simply because they’re in love.\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/span>
\nI love my husband. I love so many things about him.<\/strong><\/em><\/span>
\nI wish cutting my feelings off for the person who hurt me was as easy as I used to think it would be.<\/strong><\/em><\/span>
\nPreventing your heart from forgiving someone you love is actually a hell of a lot harder than simply forgiving them.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

I’m a statistic now.<\/strong><\/em><\/span>
\nThe things I’ve thought about women like me are now what others would think of me if they knew my current situation.<\/strong><\/em><\/span>
\n<<How could she love him after what he did to her? How could she contemplate taking him back?>><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

It’s sad that those are the first thoughts that run through our minds when someone is abused.<\/strong><\/em><\/span>
\nShouldn’t there be more distaste in our mouths for the abusers than for those who continue to love the abusers?”<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

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Kindle, 2016 (Movie 2024)<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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